Tuesday, September 11, 2012

His g-tube fell out!

In summary, Oliver's g-tube fell out, and we had an unexpected trip to Portland to get it replaced. 

When I went to start Oliver's 2pm meal last Wednesday he was sleeping soundly.  I unbundled him as usual so I could hook up his feeding tube only to find that his g-tube (the short tube that gives direct access to his stomach that was surgically placed last month) had come out!  This was NOT supposed to happen, especially in the first 6-8 weeks after it was first put in.  At that point we'll be trained to put it in ourselves, but until then the stoma (the opening in the skin and stomach where the tub in placed) is still healing and we were given instructions to head straight to the ER if it came out.  So within about 15 minutes I had called for a dear friend to come sit with the girls, filled a bag with all of Oliver's necessities, and Oliver and I were headed out the door to the ER at Rogue Valley Medical Center (RVMC).  Joel joined me there.

Unfortunately I'm not sure exactly when the tube fell out - it could have been anytime after 11 am when I fed him last and he fell asleep.  By the time we got into a room and were seen by a doctor and the ostomy nurse it could have been out for as long as 4 hours, and a new stoma can start closing in as little as 20 minutes.  They tried right away to fit the tube back in but were unsuccessful.  We called up to OHSU (Portland) for instructions, and they were willing to talk the nurse and doctor through a procedure to dilate the opening, first using a smaller diameter catheter and then easing up to a larger one, but nurse said the hole looked fully closed and they did not want to try it.   The surgery nurse at OHSU gave us instructions to head to Portland right away and check into the ER for the children's hospital when we arrived.  The doctor and nurse at RVMC said we could feed him using a nasal feeding tube because the stoma looked closed, but OSHU recommended not feeding him in case they found they needed to do some procedure that required an empty stomach. 

Praise God for our friends who could help us a such short notice!  Elsa and Nora got to stay at home and a friend came over to stay the night with them and care for them the next day.  We weren't sure how long we would be gone, but God has blessed us with such wonderful "family" here that we were confident that the girls (and cats!) would have been cared for. 

We made good time on the highway and arrived in Portland 5 1/2 hours later.  Even though he must have been hungry, Oliver slept the whole trip.  We spend about half of the time driving praying together for our son.  A g-tube is a simple matter in the medical world, but Oliver is not.  We didn't know what the doctors would need to do to salvage his g-tube site, or if it even could be salvaged.  We prayed that we would not have to make a decision about whether put him under anesthesia again for non-vital procedure considering what happened last time, and if we did have to make a decision that it would be very clear to us what to do.  We knew we could have just gone back to using a nasal feeding tube - it would have been terribly inconvenient and annoying, but he'd still get fed and not have the risk of surgery.  We also prayed that God would open the stoma so they could just put the g-tube back in and we could go home.

We checked into the ER at 10:30 pm, so his tube had been out for 9 to 12 hours by then.  We were seen shortly by the pediatric surgeon.  She first tried to put the original tube back in - it is a size 14.  It didn't go in.  Then she tried a slightly smaller, size 10 catheter, and it went it!!!!!!!!  Alleluia!  We then had to wait a while to have an x-ray done to confirm that the catheter was in the right place and that the original track had not become separated from his stomach. In the meantime five (or six?  I lost count) futile attempts were made by three different nurses to give him an IV.  They wanted to be able to give him fluids right away and overnight until the surgery team could do their evaluation since he hadn't eaten in 12 hours.  But, since he had not eaten in 12 hours he was rather dehydrated and even more difficult to poke than usual.  Thankfully the x-ray showed that the catheter tube was in the right place and the doctor working with us said we could start him on a slow drip feed for the rest of the night, so he was able to get away without an IV! 

We got to our room by 2am, let the nurses start Oliver's meal, and went to sleep.  We stopped his food in time for him to have an empty stomach by the time the nurses came to dilate his stoma to the correct size for his g-tube.  They did it in two or three stages, but I don't know for sure because I had to leave the room.  Oliver usually cries when he gets poked for labs and IVs, but this was definitely a different level of pain for him.  We talked to the doctors about anesthesia before hand but there wasn't anything they could do locally that would help.  It was a very short procedure, less than ten minutes, but I just couldn't listen to him and I was so tired I just had to leave.

We gave him one regular full meal and then were discharged by 5pm.  We drove home, relieved our friend of babysitting duty by 11pm, and fell into bed.  Joel had already planned to take the next day, Friday, off, and we spent the day playing with the girls and sleeping.  Then on Saturday I had to take Oliver in to the pediatrician unexpectedly because of a concerning lab result, but thankfully we were able to reach the right doctor for consultation and Oliver's doing fine.  I feel like I'm just finally starting to catch up from our sudden trip.



Aside from the adventure of his g-tube falling out, Oliver's tube feeds have been going very well.  He still is eating only breast milk, and I've been slowly increasing his daytime meals and decreasing his nighttime drip feed.  I figured that our girls had both slept through the night for several months by this age, so why not see if Oliver could "eat" all of his food during the day too.  I do not do well on interrupted sleep, especially not for five months in a row, even though Joel and I take turns getting up to refill his milk and restart his pump. 

Finally our goal has been reached!  He now gets all his food during six "meals" during the day and none at night!  This is a pretty big deal because usually tube fed babies cannot tolerate large meals (or bolus feeds) very well and do best on slow, overnight drips when they are sleeping, so we were told that we probably wouldn't be able to eliminate the night feeds. 

Oliver has always "slept through the night," and now we'll finally get to!   Whahoo!

This is Oliver watching his first "movie."  Elsa entertained herself that afternoon making movies on our Flip camera and showing them to Oliver. 

Officially Two

Nora turned two for real on August 26th.  I almost forgot the actual day - friends at church were reminding me that Sunday!  My excuse is that we had already celebrated earlier in the month when my family was here, but, c'mon, I've only had two years to learn it!  (Oliver's birthdate, on the other hand, is engraved in my memory since it serves as his identification in the hospital.)

Nora is bursting at the seams with energy and spunk, and it is delightful to get tidbits of her perspective and humor as she makes active use of her growing vocabulary.

Happy Birthday, little fireball.

 
She enjoyed opening her remaining presents on our back swing.  Big sister was, of course, eager to help when needed, or even if not needed:

 
 
She received her first apron from my sister and her husband and she was very excited to wear it when we did our baking the next day.
 
 
They got a little goofy while waiting for me to get out the ingredients,
 
 
and then resorted to playing pirates when I had not given them anything to stir yet with their spatulas.

 
 

 

Thursday, August 30, 2012

First solid food!

Oliver got his first taste of "solid food" a few weeks ago, thanks to his sister's help while I was picking blackberries a few yards away.  Elsa came running up to me, "Mommy, mommy, Oliver does not like blackberries!" WHAT?!?  He wasn't fussing, and I expected to find maybe a drop or two of juice on his lips, but it looked like he had been eating a whole bucket full (like Nora was doing)!


It's nice to know that he is still having some "normal" baby adventures!


I didn't think he had actually ingested any, but his diaper later that day proved otherwise. 

We had a wonderful time that day picking blackberries with two dear friends on another friend's property.  The girls enjoyed the swings and spinklers after they had their fill of berries. 



Friday, August 17, 2012

Look ma, no tubes!

No tubes or wires!  We got to take off his apnea monitor last week just before our trip for his surgery, and now with his feeding tube gone from his nose, when he's dressed with his g-tube covered up he looks like a "normal" baby!  But we know that he's anything but "normal", of course - we think he is well above average on the cuteness, sweetness, chubbyness scales, and he's the most darling baby brother we could ever imagine.  I LOVE getting to pick him up however I want without fearing that I'll tangle his wires or pull something off of him or set off a false alarm.


And now that he doesn't have wires and tubes coming off of him he's getting to have more playtime with the girls.  Elsa's had fun "teaching" him how to hold toys:



And here I was told that Oliver was the Pirate Captain and they were hiding their treasure in the treasure box/mailbox.  It looks like he's already learned to delegate and let the swabbies do the work for him. 


Then he must have had a change of heart and repented of his pirating days because Elsa started calling him the "littlest angel ever."



Tuesday, August 14, 2012

He "coded" in the OR

We're home and trying to settle into our routine again from our last trip to OHSU in Portland for Oliver's g-tube surgery. 

The brief summary is that Oliver is doing fine with his new tube and is recovering well, but there were some scary moments in the operating room. 

Here's the more detailed summary:

We took our time driving up all day on Wednesday and stopped by the Wildlife Safari (photos will come soon) and our friends in Corvallis on the way up.  By the time we got to the home we were staying at in Canby we were all completely tired out and ready to be done driving.  But even so we we were all up and piling in the van by 5:30am on Thursday to check in for surgery.  The girls did really well overall, and the long trip and little sleep were mediated by the gifts of new beanie baby bears from the hospital staff, a volunteer arts program where they make beaded necklaces activity in the waiting room, a playground nearby the home where we were staying, and visits from friends and relatives. 

All of the doctors/residents/nurses and everyone helping in the O.R. checked in and confirmed Oliver's condition, meds, medical reports, etc. before they began, and he was whisked away by 7:30am.  This simple procedure was supposed to take less than 1 1/2 hours, so by 9:30am we were getting concerned that we hadn't heard anything.  Finally the surgeon and then the cardiac anesthesiologist came out in turn to talk to us and explained that Oliver was fine now but had some trouble during the operation.  The cardiac anesthesiologist's job was to specifically just watch the details of Oliver's heart during the entire process, and we are so very glad he was there.  First, Oliver's heart did not respond well to the nitrous gas used to knock him out.  His EKG "flipped", specifically the T-wave portion of his heart beat inverted, similar to how an adult's heart would respond to being oxygen-deprived.  The anesthesiologist immediately stopped the gas and used an IV med instead and Oliver's heart went back to normal.  Then, at the end of the operation when he was starting to wake up, they saw him make slight gaging motions on the breathing tube and then his heart rate dropped.  The cardiac aneth. immediately reached for meds to get Oliver's heart going again and then his heart beat stopped altogether and the surgeon gave chest compressions for 15 seconds.  After the meds were given his heart started up again.  He "coded" in the O.R. as they would say.  His heart had stopped for 15-30 seconds in the episode.

By the time we were being told this it was well after the event and he was recovering under close monitoring, so I had a strange whirlwind of emotions in reaction to the news that my son's heart had stopped briefly.  My immediate response may have seemed stoic but I was struck with knowing that it was all done and over and and he was recovering fine now and that I could not do anything about it, so I jumped into thinking about what needed to be done next and checking with the doctors about what we would need to know for future procedures and making sure that they were going to monitor him closely as he recovered for the next few days.  The deep down terribly frightened mother and the second-guessing of whether we should have done this elective procedure hit me harder when I finally got to join Oliver in post-op recovery, and thankfully the nurse caring for him there was very reassuring, as were the doctors as they each checked on him over the next few days. 

He was monitored extra closely as he recovered (with cardiac telemetry) and was followed by OHSU cardiologists who were talking closely with his cardiologist (who is with another hospital group).  They all think that his event in the O.R. was an isolated event, probably in reaction to the gaging reflex combined with his heart condition.  I stayed with Oliver at the hospital while Joel and the girls stayed at our friends' home and came to visit every day.  We were discharged Saturday night after his feeds had gradually had been increased to his typical meal size and we had been trained in using his new g-tube. 

So we're at home now, terribly tired and recovering from the emotions, stress, and poor diet from travelling. 

I met with a "case coordinator nurse," or "CaCoon" nurse, today to help simplify our trips to Portland and to help us take advantage of other programs that will help us with Oliver's medical and developmental progress.  We we left OHSU on Saturday we were scheduled to travel back to Portland next week, the following week, and then again in a month and possibly two weeks after that.  She's already helped us consolidate two of those appointments and, after doing all the appointment coordinating for our trip at the end of July, I'm so grateful to let her do all that now!

We appreciate your continued prayers for our little son.  We praise and thank God that we still have him.

Wildlife Safari

Did you know we have ostriches in Oregon?


The Wildlife Safari a few hours from our home provided a nice diversion from the long drive to Portland.  Animals from all over the world get to wander "freely" around the park while you drive very very slowly as you take their pictures and try to keep them from poking their heads in your car windows.


Nora liked all the animals, but I think she liked getting to sit up front with daddy just as much:





And you would get to see lots more animals and other scenes from our recent trip to Portland, but after this photo my camera said "error99" and now will not take any pictures.  I am not too happy about this.  I still have our good ol' faithful Point n' Shoot Canon and will be using it in the meantime while I attempt to convince my beloved Canon Rebel to stop rebelling.




Hugging dahlias

The dear friends who hosted us during this trip to Portland live a very short drive from a gorgeous dahlia farm. 


Elsa took it upon herself to hug all the dahlias that she thought were pretty (which were most of them), and our friend kindly obliged her request to photograph her doing so. 


She even kissed some of them. 



There are many more photos of Elsa looking darling hugging flowers, but I'll save the rest of them for the grandmas :)