Tuesday, June 12, 2012

Chubby boy

Oliver's made it to 9 pounds now, and he's got the cheeks and rolls to prove it!

There's not much new medical info to share; we're still doing weekly check-ups and lab work, and getting appointments scheduled at OHSU in Portland for July.  His eating is still improving (he's doing pretty good with a new bottle we've been using), but he'll still need the help of a tube for a while yet.  This last week we've just been trying to keep him from getting sick!

They say housework is easier when you get fully dressed in the morning,

Well, we think it's even easier still if you get fully dressed-UP.  Elsa has added ballet and ballerinas to her list of favorite things, and I've added unloading the dishwasher to the list of things Elsa can help with around the house:

And here's a shot of her playing "ballerina nurse" to Oliver:



I think I'll dress up like a pirate next time I'm vacuuming and picking up, and I'll pretend I'm searching for buried treasure...

Friday, May 25, 2012

Update: Oliver the pincushion

Oliver is now two months old, a full 8 pounds, and yesterday he drank his whole meal for the first time!  We've had a very full week and a half of seeing his pediatrician, nephrologist, cardiologist, occupational therapist, and a host medical personnel who all tried in turn to draw blood out of him. 

Nephrologist - We finally got to meet Oliver's blood pressure and kidney doctor in person.  Most of his specialty doctors are at OHSU (Oregon Health and Science University), but many of them hold clinic days in Medford several times a year.  The bottom line from this visit was that we'll need to wait until Oliver is off the caffeine and sodium meds before they can fully get to the root cause of his high blood pressure, and that we'll wait until Oliver is over 6 months old to do further tests to determine the functionality of his left kidney.  In the mean time we'll be taking him in for weekly lab work to monitor his sodium levels.


Cardiologist - Oliver's heart doctor is based at another Portland hospital, and the pediatric cardiologists from there also thankfully have clinics in Medford regularly.  The doctor confirmed Oliver's hypertrophic cardiomyopathy (thickening of the heart walls, specifically the septum between the ventricles), but also was encouraged that his heart was functioning well in spite of it and the other abnormalities in its structure.  We'll see the cardiologist again at their clinic in July. 


Occupational Therapist - Oliver's current occupation (besides visiting doctors and being patted and poked by Nora) is learning to eat on his own.  The PATS (Pediatric Assessment and Therapy Services) group at the hospital here have been great in working with Oliver and I, especially in teaching me how to work with Oliver as he progresses.  The primary difficulty for him now in eating is still his rapid breathing rate and low stamina (try gulping down a glass of water when you are tired and panting, like after a sudden sprint), both of which are slowly improving.  As much and I've been trying to "help" him along, he's really done great figuring out on his own how to nurse and drink from a bottle in such a way that he can handle it, and at our last appointment he drank his whole meal!  We are so thrilled!  He'll use an NG feeding tube for a while still probably, but now the end seems to be in sight! 


Lab work - Oliver does not give up his blood easily, and the orders are for weekly lab work.  For the last two weeks it has taken 5 tries to get enough out of him, but this week they needed a larger quantity for some additional tests (kidney-related hormone levels).  Five attempts, three nurses, one respiration therapist, and two and a half hours later they apologetically sent us home with an appointment to come the next day to try again.  So today we went back and were directly seen by a new respiration therapist, who, after another failed attempt, sent us to the NICU to our original NICU doctor who finally got 6 mL of blood out of the poor little guy after two more attempts.  Oliver the pincushion.  We'll see them again next week!

He's become quite social at home here and loves being held (hates to be put down!) and tolerates his sisters' affection rather well.  He's getting much stronger and tries to hold his head up all the time.  We absolutely adore him.  I let Elsa hold him for a bit today and found her pacifying him with her finger!  (Note the "Fancy Nancy" hair-do she gave herself - she loves the books, thanks Aunt Naomi!) 

Thanks for your ongoing prayers!

Nora Juliet




Monday, May 14, 2012

"Follow by email" is working!

I finally figured out how to set up email subscriptions for the blog and it's working!  For those who want to keep in touch but don't want to remember to keep checking back here to see if we've posted anything new: just put your email in the little box in the top of the right sidebar and follow the directions to get an email every time there's a new post. 

And here's a picture of us all on Oliver's first picnic so this post won't be completely photo-less:

Sunday, May 13, 2012

Homecoming and a Birthday!

HOMECOMING!
He's home!  After a weekend of me rooming in at the hospital to learn how to care for him and use his monitor and feeding equipment and a crazy day of getting his prescriptions all in order, we finally got to bring our baby boy home on Monday.  I am still very tired, but it is SO wonderful to all be home together!  He's been doing great - there really is something medicinal and therapeutic about just being home, even for a little guy like him who was coming home for the first time. 


 The girls adore him.  Elsa comes running when she hears any beeping or alarm to make sure I'm attending to the baby and Nora can hardly keep her hands off him!  She follows me whenever I walk back to our bedroom to pick him up and asks "hug?  hug?  hug?" until she gets to hug him.
 Oliver continues to have occasional bradicardia episodes when his heart-rate drops, but thankfully they have been rare since we've come home (which especially nice because his home apnea monitor alarm is loud!).  He still has a long way to go in learning to nurse too, but that has been considerably easier to work with him on since we've been home.  We get to see the kidney doctor at a nephrology clinic this week and the heart doctor at the cardiology clinic next week.  Thankfully they have clinic days in Medford so we won't have to drive to Portland again yet!  Thank you all for your continued prayers and support for our little one. 

A BIRTHDAY!
The day after Oliver cam home, Elsa turned 4!  FOUR!  So we invited three little friends over for a princess birthday tea party.  We decorated crowns, listened to Daddy read Bible princess stories, and had a PB&J lunch on pink plates with pink strawberries and pink watermelon and pink tea in purple cups and then had a pink castle birthday cake with pink forks under pink balloons and pink streamers.  For a mama that doesn't like pink or frosting, this was a big deal.  But for our darling four-year-old fairy princess I wouldn't have it any other way.



Happy birthday, Elsa Kate!

Thursday, May 3, 2012

Oliver update #6 - Home is on the horizon!


Oliver's blood pressure is finally dropping!  Finally, after trying three different medicines, each at several different dosages, he's had about a day's worth of "good" diastolic blood pressure readings.  His doctors are aiming for discharge on Monday rather than over the weekend so they can make sure his blood pressure is really stable and also to give us a bit of time to practice using all the equipment we'll be taking home with us. So, we've cautiously begun going through the discharge checklist with his doctors and nurses:
  • Sleep study (to determine the stability of his respiration) - DONE - the results showed that he is still having a few episodes of slow breathing/slow heart rate (apnea and bradycardia) and so we'll need to go home with a monitor
  • Get the monitor and learn how to use it - we'll get it and receive instructions on Friday
  • Get the feeding tube pump and learn how to use it - DONE - we're still working on helping him to nurse, and he still gets at least 95% of his milk through his NG tube
  • Have all his prescriptions filled to take home - he'll be on caffeine to help his respiration, propranolol (beta-blocker) to prevent the irregular heart rate from his WPW syndrome, and aldactone to regulate his blood pressure, plus vitamins.
  • Car seat study (to make sure he can safely sit upright-ish in the seat) - this will probably be over the weekend
  • Rooming-in for one or two nights to learn how to take care of my baby - he's almost six weeks old, but I feel like I barely know him and how to take care of him!  I will stay overnight for a day or two at the hospital and will be the only one caring for him with the actual equipment we'll be taking home with us.  It's a practice time - it will be "just like at home" but with the nurses right outside our door for when I have questions. 

Maybe we'll be home Monday!